When it boils down to making godly friends as an adult, there are many things to consider. God's leading is important so our emotions don't get in the way of making friends. Through grace, we are able to understand how friendships work. I realized the closer we get to God, we lose some friends and gain some in the process.

Knowing and accepting God's will in your relationship is very vital. I’ve always believed God would choose for me and I still do because he keeps revealing this to me. Personally, I’d like him to choose for me because I’m short-sighted.

To stop being jealous of others, we must understand that jealousy operates in stages. So we must consistently seek God's help until it is totally eliminated.

This is because jealousy is seated deep within our souls. Jealousy is an ugly and unpleasant bug and I have been bitten many times.